5 Ways to Seize the Day

In the original Karate Kid, Daniel-san seizes the moment to impress his love interest and get back at the school bullies (win-win).

He puts a hose over the bathroom stall of the antihero, Johnnie, at the Halloween dance.

โ€ฆand then proceeds to run back through the crowded dance floor, chased by Johnnie and his goon friends (dressed up as skeletons in case we forgot who the bad guys are ;)

Daniel pauses on his way out just long enough to give Elizabeth Shueโ€™s character a kind of โ€œfleeing kiss.โ€ With a grin he blurts, โ€œItโ€™s cominโ€™ around!โ€

As in, the bullies are finally getting their just desserts.

This line โ€” and Danielโ€™s gumption โ€” were forever fired in my then 6-year-old brain. The new kid in school pranks the toughest, blondest, most popular kid in school.

Daniel might as well have said, โ€œSeized it!โ€

5 Ways to Seize the Day

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A night like this doesnโ€™t come along very often.

I seized it.
 

Tom Cruise as Jerry Maguire

๐“๐ซ๐š๐ง๐ฌ๐Ÿ๐จ๐ซ๐ฆ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐ฅ๐ข๐Ÿ๐ž ๐ญ๐จ๐๐š๐ฒ ๐ฐ๐ข๐ญ๐ก ๐ญ๐ก๐ž๐ฌ๐ž 5 ๐ก๐š๐œ๐ค๐ฌ.

Dr. Seuss wrote 'Cat in the Hat' at 54. It's not too late.

1. ๐‘๐ž๐ฆ๐ž๐ฆ๐›๐ž๐ซ, ๐๐š๐ฒ๐ฌ ๐š๐ซ๐ž ๐š๐ซ๐›๐ข๐ญ๐ซ๐š๐ซ๐ฒ.
โ†ณ Today is Saturday, but the idea of a weekend is a made-up concept.
โ†ณ Prioritize yourself for once(!) by doing 1๏ธโƒฃ thing today that moves you forward toward your dream.
โ†ณ Once you build the habit of working toward your future, it becomes intrinsically rewarding (read: you feel good!).

2. ๐“๐š๐ค๐ž ๐ฌ๐ฆ๐š๐ฅ๐ฅ ๐›๐ข๐ญ๐ž๐ฌ
โ†ณ Ambitious people set big goals, but this can be self-defeating.
โ†ณ You are more likely to make progress when you lower the stakes of every dayโ€™s work.
โ†ณ If the โ€œidealโ€ win is to write a chapter of your book today, apply a โ€œwinnerโ€™s discountโ€ and celebrate if you write just 250 words.

3. ๐…๐จ๐œ๐ฎ๐ฌ ๐จ๐ง ๐ก๐š๐›๐ข๐ญ๐ฌ ๐ง๐จ๐ญ ๐ ๐จ๐š๐ฅ๐ฌ
โ†ณ Dilbert cartoonist Scott Adams crusades against goals. He advises that habits are how most people succeed.
โ†ณ James Clear: โ€œEvery action you take is a vote for the type of person you wish to become.โ€
โ†ณ Enjoy the journey. Be present in what you do now.

4. ๐ƒ๐จ๐ง'๐ญ ๐›๐ž ๐œ๐ฅ๐ž๐ฏ๐ž๐ซ
โ†ณ Hot take: โ€˜Zero to Oneโ€™ by Peter Thiel does more to harm entrepreneurship than help.
โ†ณ 99.9% of wealthy people did not do anything truly original. They found a strong customer need and served it better than others.
โ†ณ You canโ€™t know the perfect idea at the start, so donโ€™t waste time trying to find it.

5. ๐’๐ญ๐š๐ซ๐ญ ๐›๐ฎ๐ข๐ฅ๐๐ข๐ง๐  ๐š ๐ฌ๐ฎ๐ฉ๐ฉ๐จ๐ซ๐ญ ๐ง๐ž๐ญ๐ฐ๐จ๐ซ๐ค
โ†ณ The ceiling of your potential is as high as the pillars you surround yourself with.
โ†ณ Donโ€™t try to find a mentor on Day 1. Let it happen organically.
โ†ณ Try a new coffee shop or coworking space where the people energize you. Find a meetup. Book a ticket to a conference. Just go!

No one is coming to save you.

You have to start.

Seize the day, my friends.


Seize a Coach

If youโ€™re looking to unlock your own elite potential โ€” and that of your organization, give me a shout.

I provide 1:1 coaching based on my experience in:

  • the military (including leading in combat)

  • Harvard Business School

  • Amazon and other top companies

  • venture-backed startups

I will work with you on your:

  • mindset

  • goals

  • habits

  • systems

  • mindful leadership

If thereโ€™s a chance I can help you as a thought partner (not to mention accountability), then grab some time with me for a free exploratory call.

Itโ€™ll be just 15 minutes. No sales pitch.


Coda

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I didnโ€™t care anymore. I had lost the ability to bullsโ€”t.

I was 35. I had started my life.
 

Tom Cruise as Jerry Maguire

Outro 

โ€œLife doesnโ€™t need a soundtrack. Life is a soundtrack.โ€
โ€”Sri

The group Art Brut is so excited to be making progress that they sing a song so annoying that itโ€™s actually good enough to make me laugh.


Cheers

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